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Post by twine on Jan 14, 2010 14:23:14 GMT -6
My Dad was pretty effective about not beating me but getting his point across. When he was really pissed he wouldn't talk to me for a day or two and that worked about as well as anything. My stepdad on the other hand. . . well, he never landed any strikes but tried a few times. Still a giant asshole though when he was younger, cool now.
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Post by poncho72 on Jan 14, 2010 14:44:20 GMT -6
Well, the daughter is only 18 months, so I haven't had to kick her ass or anything yet. But, not to worry... she will get plenty of discipline when it is called for. My niece and nephew are examples of what too little discipline will do. My sister, while I love her to death, knows nothing about disciplining kids and it shows. Me? I got my fair share of ass whuppins when I was a little shit. Best thing that ever happened to me really. And I feel that because of the ass whuppins I got, I'll know how and when to deliver them. It's the kids that never got disciplined that don't know HOW when they become parents themselves. I hear ya man. I got spanked with a belt, until I was about 13 or so, whenever I fucked up. My father stopped the practice after that, and you could definitely tell when it came to my younger brother and sister. They had no fear of my parents really. I think you have to have at least a little dose of fear to command the respect of your children. At least while they are young. Interesting subject for me, as I'm about to have a little boy. I still have no idea how I'm gonna discipline him. I don't think I could spank him with a belt (seems a tad extreme). But at the same time, I'm not gonna be one of those pussy parents who put their kids on "timeout" and have absolutely no control over them. There is definitely a fine line to this I would think. Hopefully I figure out the right balance of fear and reasoning. I was spanked w/ the belt, wooden spoon and flyswatter! My sister? Not so much, she saw my ass whuppin's and didn't want any of that so she stayed in line! As for me, I have a soon to be 5 year old daughter and I spank her when it warrants, no belt, not ever. She is getting better and knows that if a spanking is coming makes ammends beforehand. The Mrs. and I command respect and also make her accountable for her actions, you have to do it know or you will have a shitstorm on your hands. These folks that " talk it out " and like someone else said have a " timeout " spot have no idea what they are doing IMO. I'm not into physical dicipline but if it calls for a spanking she's damn sure gonna get one!
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Post by NotMyKid on Jan 14, 2010 14:58:58 GMT -6
My family was in church for Christmas about 5 or 6 years ago and a dad was taking his 6 or 7 year old son to the back of the church an right when he passed where we were sitting the boy said "daddy I don't want to go to the back of church, I promise I will be good" My brother, sister, and I just looked at each other because we all remembered what happens in the back of church. ;D
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Post by NOTTHOR on Jan 14, 2010 15:58:46 GMT -6
we all remembered what happens in the back of church. ;D What the hell happens in the back of the church?
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Post by twine on Jan 14, 2010 16:10:40 GMT -6
we all remembered what happens in the back of church. ;D What the hell happens in the back of the church? Yeah, what happens in the back of the church? My dad spanked us once or twice. It didn't hurt but you still felt bad for being punished that he didn't need to do it again.
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Post by Stukat on Jan 14, 2010 17:01:23 GMT -6
You don’t have to use a belt.
My old man would come home from work and find out i was a being shit. He would grab me up by my arm, and start dragging me to the stairs that went to my room. He would hit me one time in the ass hard enough that I felt it and tell me to go to my room and to not even think about coming out in a mean ass voice
He 'spanked' me or whatever, but it was not overly painful, it just put me in my place more than anything and just let me know that he was in charge.
That’s all you need to do, it let your children know who is boss and that there will be consequences if they step out of line.
That’s my opinion.
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Post by NotMyKid on Jan 14, 2010 17:12:39 GMT -6
we all remembered what happens in the back of church. ;D What the hell happens in the back of the church? You get spanked for acting up in church and no not by the priest, by your Dad. Sick fuckers.
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Post by NOTTHOR on Jan 14, 2010 20:47:20 GMT -6
What the hell happens in the back of the church? You get spanked for acting up in church and no not by the priest, by your Dad. Sick fuckers. Whoa, why are we sick? We just asked what goes on in the back - you're the one who obviously drew some sort of bad idea about it. You got something you want to talk about?
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Post by Gumbyhawk on Jan 17, 2010 12:46:35 GMT -6
I never got beat in church. Church WAS punishment when my bro and I were little. Other than the ass-beatings, part of the punishment was having to go to church on Sunday. If we really fucked up, it was both church AND Sunday school. My best buddy was the same way since his folks hung out with my folks and all went to the same church.
Considering all that, it is amazing that I actually belong to a church and go of my own accord once in a blue moon.
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Post by thunderhawk on Jan 17, 2010 19:29:52 GMT -6
You get spanked for acting up in church and no not by the priest, by your Dad. Sick fuckers. Whoa, why are we sick? We just asked what goes on in the back - you're the one who obviously drew some sort of bad idea about it. You got something you want to talk about? I like where this is headed.
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Post by The Bluzmn on Jan 19, 2010 3:30:16 GMT -6
Spanked my kid reasonably when he was very young and didn't have to after he was about six or so. I would just look at him when he was acting a fool and in my deepest voice with my best scowl, point at him and say "Tim!" Whatever he was doing, he stopped. It was the discipline during the early years that set the tone.
As for Henderson, I hear there is an in-home visit this week.
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Post by NotMyKid on Jan 19, 2010 9:25:38 GMT -6
As for Henderson, I hear there is an in-home visit this week. Tonight is what is being said on HN.com.
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Post by Saggitariutt Jefferspin (ith) on Jan 20, 2010 18:00:03 GMT -6
Seantral is NOT coming to Iowa.
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Post by NotMyKid on Jan 21, 2010 8:42:48 GMT -6
Seantral is NOT coming to Iowa. and KF said thanks but no thanks on the in home visit. I would like to hear the reason why but don't think we will ever get an honest answer even if KF talks about it in the public.
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Post by twine on Jan 21, 2010 9:39:48 GMT -6
Seantral is NOT coming to Iowa. and KF said thanks but no thanks on the in home visit. I would like to hear the reason why but don't think we will ever get an honest answer even if KF talks about it in the public. I almost kind of wonder if KF didn't pursue him any longer because he doesn't want to focus too much recrutiting time and effort on a player (and father) who thinks he's the shit before he's even played one minute of college football. I also doubt Kirk would want to have to pay special attention to this kid while he was at Iowa when we already have a bunch of other very good players and what seems to be great team chemistry right now. I could be very wrong but it's just a hunch.
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Post by poncho72 on Jan 21, 2010 10:58:50 GMT -6
I think you are on the right path Twine.
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Post by Saggitariutt Jefferspin (ith) on Jan 21, 2010 11:24:59 GMT -6
Seantral wouldn't give Iowa his final visit.
He's not going to commit without visiting...so Ferentz said fuck it - and I applaud him for it.
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Post by thunderhawk on Jan 21, 2010 12:01:16 GMT -6
That hot bitch may be hot...but she's still a bitch. Best to just let the bitch walk on by.
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